
Several studies show that depressed people delude themselves far less than their nondepressed peers about the amount of control they have over situations, and also about the effect they have on other people. He suggests that individuals in the throes of depression seldom deceive others-or are deceived themselves-because they seem to perceive and describe reality with greater accuracy than others. In his book Lies! Lies!! Lies!!! The Psychology of Deceit (American Psychiatric Press, Inc.), psychiatrist Charles Ford, M.D., adds depressed people to that list. On the other hand, the people least likely to lie are those who score high on psychological scales of responsibility and those with meaningful same- sex friendships.

So complimenting a friend's awful haircut or telling a creditor that the check is in the mail both qualify.) (Incidentally, when researchers refer to lying, they don't include the mindless pleasantries or polite equivocations we offer each other in passing, such as "I'm fine, thanks" or "No trouble at all." An "official" lie actually misleads, deliberately conveying a false impression.

Furthermore, some types of relationships, such as those between parents and teens, are virtual magnets for deception: "College students lie to their mothers in one out of two conversations," reports DePaulo. Both men and women lie in approximately a fifth of their social exchanges lasting 10 or more minutes over the course of a week they deceive about 30 percent of those with whom they interact one-on-one. Most people, she found, lie once or twice a day-almost as often as they snack from the refrigerator or brush their teeth. In a 1996 study, DePaulo and her colleagues had 147 people between the ages of 18 and 71 keep a diary of all the falsehoods they told over the course of a week. “Impossible” was covered by Ed Sheeran The Make Believe Adriana Miglane Ricardo Bielecki & Daniel Neumann Frank Diago (Gipsy) Mike Singer & Nicole Frolov BASE Boyband Sabrina Sweet California K Koke in the BBC Radio 1 Live Lounge Omar Dean LUNAFLY Laurene & Louis, Tom Jay Williams and James & FJ (Rock).For starters, the work by Bella DePaulo, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of Virginia, confirms Nietzche's assertion that the lie is a condition of life. James Arthur was 24 years old at the release of “Impossible” Cover Versions The song was also certified Gold in Spain for Streaming. It was certified 4x Platinum in Australia, 3x Platinum in New Zealand, 2x Platinum in Switzerland, 2x Platinum in the United Kingdom, Platinum in Belgium, Germany, and Sweden, and Gold in Austria, France, Italy, and Spain. Besides the UK and Ireland, “Impossible” also reached number one in Czech Republic, Greece, Luxembourg Digital Songs, Scotland, and Slovakia, and reached the top ten in Australia, Austria, Belgium, France, Germany, Hungary, New Zealand, Poland, Portugal Digital Songs, Spain, and Switzerland. “Impossible” was the Christmas number one for 2012. James’ cover of “Impossible” debuted at number one on the UK Singles Chart, and earned the largest first week sales for that year, also becoming the best selling single of 2012 in the Republic of Ireland. Sales for James Arthur’s cover of “Impossible” were over 187,000 during its first 24 hours on sale, making James X Factor history with him being the winner with the fastest sales. Profits from all CD sales and downloads of the song goes to the charity Together for Short Lives, a charity that works with children with conditions that threaten or limit their lives.

I knew that I might have to tell embarrassing stories about myself, but I might help someone realize ‘Okay, if Shontelle can figure it out, then I’ll be alright.’ It’s not the end of the world - you can move on, and this song is going to help you find the strength somehow.” James Arthur covered “Impossible” in the ninth season of the X Factor final, and released the song for sale after he was declared the season’s winner. I know that a lot of people have a similar story and sometimes you need to feel like you’re not alone. I just wanted to put a song out that gave people hope - things may not work out the way you want them to, but you can move past it and everything is going to be okay. Shontelle told J-14 Magazinethat: “I really felt like ballads were missing from radio for a minute, and I knew that there was no song out there for heartbroken people. “Impossible” was originally written for and performed by Barbadian Pop and R&B singer Shontelle.
